Top Misconceptions About Dominatrixes
Are you new to the world of domination and submission? You may be aware of some of these myths circulating about this niche, thinking are true. There is an air of mystery and secrecy behind this kink that can often lead to misunderstandings. We are here to shed some light on dominatrixes and what they do to bring you some more accurate information and remove some of the stigma around this kink. More and more people are interested in our domination services. One recent study showed 34% of adults had engaged in BDSM.
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1: All Dominatrixes Are The Same
The first misconception we find is prevalent is the idea that all mistresses are the same. Each of our different dominatrixes will provide different services. Each dominatrix will cater to specific kinks and different fetishes, whether you want to experiment with spanking, humiliation or role play. Seeing a dominatrix is a very personal experience that can be customized to your specific tastes for whatever floats your boat. Our dominatrixes want to make sure the experience is as emotionally fulfilling for you as possible.
2: Domination Is Abusive
Our mistresses are highly skilled and trained in the art of domination. They know how to take care of clients. What happens in a domination session is always consensual and involves willing participants. Safety and comfort are the top priorities of our dominatrixes. The relationship between a dominatrix and her client is always based on trust. She is an expert in safe practices and will provide aftercare support to ensure you have a great time. As long as everyone involved agrees to the power dynamic and activities they perform, then there is no abuse or aggression. Dominatrixes are in control. Many people see aggression as being out of control; the opposite of what a domme does.
3: It Is Just About Extreme Sex
The world of domination is not just about the sexual act. You can also play around with impact play and role play. Many people live high-stress lives and embrace the feeling of letting go with a dominatrix. It’s cathartic for them. You do not need to go to extremes. You only need to go as far as you are willing to go. Our clients request this service because they genuinely enjoy it. Some people are masochistic and enjoy feeling pain but others enjoy humiliation and the power dynamic.
4: The Dominatrix Controls Everything Dominant in control
BDSM is always consensual. So, the submissive relinquishes control voluntarily. Life is tough. Our clients enjoy being able to relax and let someone else take control. Our mistresses have a deep appreciation of desires and boundaries, allowing you to find pleasure in letting your guard down.
Our dominatrixes will never force someone to do something they don’t want to. Communication about limitations and needs is so important. Creating a safe place where you can work through any control issues is what mistresses do best. Limits do not have to be set in stone and can be altered by the client.
5: The Dom/Sub Dynamic Is 24/7
For a lot of people, this is a dynamic restricted to the bedroom. Most people who engage in BDSM have normal lives where it is not a part of their daily routines. Part of a domination session is setting boundaries. This means the dynamic comes to an end after the session. There are many who take charge in daily life but love getting to give it up in the bedroom and vice versa.
6: It’s All About Pain
It’s helpful to think about domination as a mindset. Mistresses use pain as a tool to work through emotions. For many punters, it is not about pain or punishment but exploring power dynamics through enhancing intimacy. It is a form of erotic play to explore different sensations. Not about specific acts. Though many do enjoy sensory deprivation, humiliation and orgasm denial.
7: Enthusiasts Are Demented
Though it can be a great way to reclaim dominance and a sense of control, it does not have to be linked to trauma necessarily. In 2020, researchers found that fewer than 19% of people traced their interest in kinks to past trauma. Enjoying being dominated does not mean there is something wrong with you. Most punters are just normal people. In one 2006 study, BDSM participants were found to experience higher subjective well-being. Contrary to popular belief, this sexual niche appeals to a diverse audience. There is no experience or trait that unifies people who use dommes.
60% of people have had fantasies of control, pain and submission, according to Psychology Today. So, what’s stopping you from turning your dreams into a reality today? Head over to our dominatrix page to find a gorgeous mistress to find one who will fulfill all your fantasies.